Plan with a Capital ‘S’

Posted: May 29, 2018 in Life as I see it...
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Where do you plan to go this vacation? How are you bringing in the new year/ your birthday / your anniversary? What do you plan to do in future? Are these the right courses for what you have in mind for your life? Why are you going out with this person, do you see a future with him or her? Have you been saving for a rainy day? Have you ensured that your children won’t want for anything in their lives? Have you made sure that they have a sound financial backing as long as they live?

Sound familiar? The mental checklist!!! The grocery list for life. We have all been taught not to disregard it. We have all been brought up to think and over think like that. We think and think and then think some more. We plan, we propose, we toil, we execute and in the end we have successful lives with enough financial security to last us a lifetime and some of us even go beyond that and take care of our next generation too.

We marry, have a family. Sometimes we fall in love too and then again we analyse whether that (person /relationship) would work in our lives or not. We hold on to it if it fits with our master plan and let go if it doesn’t.

All of it is highly rational and responsible behaviour. We have to keep up the family name, its legacy which is the biggest thing we pass on to our children. It cannot be tainted by impulsive acts or decisions, can it be?

But just for a moment think, what if we could lead our lives without planning ahead? What if, we concentrated more on OUR lives alone not burdened by the family name, or what people would say or what will happen if plan A fails!! We have been brought up to think of all possible scenarios. We have a master plan A, if that fails we fall back on Plan B, God forbid if that fails we either have a workable Plan C or we give in to despair. Assign it to fate. Lose hope. Sometimes we muster courage to pick ourselves up and fight back. Isn’t that what all great success stories, that we keep hearing for inspiration, are about?

What I am suggesting here is something completely different. Something, few have the courage and audacity to take up. I am referring to a Super Plan S, where S stands for SPONTANEITY. What would it be like to live life as it comes? Wouldn’t it be more meaningful if it is led as God wanted us to lead it- without frills & attachments. It would be a great relief if we could start a relationship, a job, a move, an education without thinking— WHAT NEXT!!

Isn’t it enough that we are living it up in the moment?

How many of the ‘successful’ people, we look upto, have lived their lives without compromises? It’s a cliché choice – happiness or success. I am not posing that question here. It is perfectly alright to want to be successful in life. It is great to be ambitious but not the same rules apply to all people.

For me success might not mean money. For me happiness might not mean success. I may be happy in a relationship without a future. I may find contentment even in the absence of high living. I might be fulfilled without a soul mate or in some cases a life partner.

It is different for each person and it is alright for him or her to make those choices without pressure from family, relatives or well meaning friends. We are not going to take back anything from here. Not the money we earn, nor the good deeds we perform.

We are here to keep our Souls happy. We form attachments along the way- some we are born into, others we cultivate but our prime responsibility is to ourselves. We cannot pour from an empty cup. To be able to give happiness, we have to be happy inside. There is no perfect recipe for it which suits all palates. How we find it, nurture it, is upto each individual..

Comments
  1. Neeraj says:

    हरेक जीव संसार में स्थाई खुशी की तलाश में है । यह भी सत्य है कि स्थाई खुशी का बाहरी क्रिया कलापों/घटनाओं/भौतिक साधनो से कोई सीधा सम्बंध नहीं है । चिंतन को वर्तमान में घटित घटनाकर्मों तक सीमित करना ही स्थाई खुशी प्राप्त करने मे मदद कर सकता है । न भूतकाल की घटना से प्रभावित और न ही भविष्य का कोई चिंतन । मुश्किल है लेकिन असंभव नही ।

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  2. Vaishali says:

    Loved your Plan S. Very much inspiring.

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  3. Shakti singh shekhawat says:

    Wish i could live life by following plan S😜

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  4. Saroj Gupta says:

    I also wish the same lubita.l think we would make our family more proud.

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  5. Reetu says:

    Awsm writing…..

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  6. ravindarsingh says:

    Written by true heart and went directly in veins
    Made life so easy and i forgot complications after reading it. Such great mindset and skills
    .
    Thank you

    Like

  7. I had been reading ur posts..u have amazing writing skills.. good luck

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  8. Nice one.. keep writing

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  9. Thank you for this inspiring post. I believe that we should plan ahead, for our future and for our family. Time is something we can’t take back and I don’t wanna have regrets when I am old and dying.
    Hey, don’t hesitate to visit my blog page, I would really like to connect with you.

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